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       Summary Highlights:

  • Most traditional therapy gets stuck in emotional loops and reprocessing the past.
  • A results-focused marriage counseling process gives couples structure and clarity.
  • At Randel Porter Counseling, therapy moves quickly and avoids outdated “just talk” models.
  • The goal is real, lasting results—not keeping you in sessions forever.

Why Does the Marriage Counseling Process Matter?

When couples come to me, they’re usually burned out—on each other, on the problem, and often on the idea of therapy itself.

And I get it.

You’ve probably heard horror stories of sessions where people just vent for an hour while the therapist nods… and nothing ever changes. That outdated approach is what gives counseling a bad name.

That’s why my marriage counseling process and result strategy is different—because you don’t need another place to complain. You need a place to shift.

What Makes My Process Different?

At Randel Porter Counseling, I don’t waste your time.

I guide couples through a clear, structured process that’s designed to uncover the real problems—not just the surface arguments about chores, phone use, or tone of voice.

Here’s how my approach works:

  • No endless rehashing. We don’t dwell on every past mistake. We look at what patterns created them and how to change them.
  • We focus on thinking, not just feeling. Most therapy revolves around emotions. I help you understand the thoughts driving those emotions.
  • Tools you can actually use. You’ll leave sessions with clarity and real-world strategies, not just more “stuff to process.”
  • This isn’t about catharsis—it’s about results. Because if you’re stuck in a loop, you don’t need to re-experience the loop. You need to exit it.

What Should You Expect from the Marriage Counseling Process and Result?

The marriage counseling process and result go hand-in-hand. If the process is unclear, disorganized, or stuck in the past, the result will reflect that.

With me, you can expect:

  • A fast path to clarity. We don’t spend six sessions figuring out what the issue is—you already know something’s off. Let’s name it and fix it.
  • Direct guidance, not vague “how does that make you feel” moments.
  • Progress you can feel between sessions. Realignment, reconnection, and reduced emotional noise.
  • An end point. I’m not here to keep you in therapy forever. The goal is freedom—not dependency.

Why Do So Many Couples Stick with Ineffective Counseling?

Because there’s a major misconception about marriage counseling—that it’s all the same.

Spoiler: it’s not.

Most people assume that every therapist will offer something useful, but many follow a model that’s passive, overly emotional, or just lets couples talk in circles without real direction. That might work for some, but for couples in distress who need traction fast, that approach often misses the mark.

The truth is, counseling that feels like it’s helping isn’t always counseling that’s actually creating change.

What couples really need is someone who can quickly identify toxic patterns, challenge unhelpful thinking, and guide them through a clear, actionable system. That’s the marriage counseling process and result I’m committed to delivering at Randel Porter Counseling.

We don’t sit in pain—we move through it, with purpose.

When Should You Start?

If you’re stuck in the same arguments…
If you feel more like business partners than lovers…
If you’re walking on eggshells or silently detaching…

That’s your cue.

You don’t have to wait for a full-blown crisis. You don’t need a hundred reasons to take action. You just need a willingness to do things differently.

At Randel Porter Counseling, I’ll guide you through a streamlined, effective process that creates real change—not just temporary relief. Call 210.818.5795 today to schedule your session and get started on the only part of therapy that actually matters: the result.

FAQs About Marriage Counseling

If you’re even wondering about it, that’s usually the sign. Counseling isn’t just for couples on the verge of divorce—it’s for anyone who feels stuck, disconnected, or frustrated. If you’re seeing signs like constant tension, avoidance, or feeling more like roommates, it’s time to talk.

Totally common—and not a dealbreaker. I often work with just one person in the relationship at first. Real change can begin with one person shifting how they think, respond, and communicate. And in many cases, once the other partner sees that change, they become more open to joining.

Not here. That outdated model keeps people stuck. My marriage counseling services are direct, structured, and focused on what actually creates change: understanding the thinking patterns that are driving your disconnection.

Yes—but the approach matters. You don’t need to relive every argument to heal. We’ll focus on what’s still working, uncover what’s been misfiring, and retrain the internal habits that keep pulling you off track. You’d be surprised how fast things can shift when the right work is done.

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—but my style isn’t about dragging things out for months with no movement. Most couples begin to feel relief and clarity within the first few sessions. I aim to get you out of survival mode and into solution mode quickly.

Yes. I provide secure, confidential teletherapy sessions to couples across Texas—including San Antonio, Austin, Houston, Dallas, and beyond. You don’t need to fight traffic or take time off work to start fixing what matters.

Anything and everything that’s showing up in the relationship:

  • Communication breakdowns
  • Emotional distance
  • Intimacy issues
  • Infidelity
  • Resentment or past hurts
  • Parenting challenges
  • Trust and safety

No topic is off-limits, because the goal is real clarity and real results.

Not necessarily. If you’re still having the conversation, there’s still something there to work with. Many couples come to me on the edge—and leave with a renewed sense of understanding and connection. Counseling can help you get clear on whether to rebuild or part ways respectfully.

No. I don’t play judge or referee. I help both of you see your own patterns clearly and understand each other better. My role is to facilitate clarity, not assign blame. The goal is to make your relationship stronger—not pick a winner.

Easy—just call me. We’ll schedule a session and get to work. No fluff, no “getting to know you” runaround. Just straightforward support to help you reconnect, rebuild, and move forward. Call 210.818.5795 to book your first session.

About Randel Porter – Therapist

Randel Porter is a licensed professional counselor and psychotherapist based in San Antonio, Texas (LPC #75830). With a BA in Psychology and an MA in Counseling, he helps individuals and couples cut through emotional noise and get real results—without the fluff or endless “processing.” Randel specializes in thought-focused therapy that challenges outdated methods and delivers clarity fast. He offers in-person and online counseling across Texas.

Ready to clear the mental clutter and reconnect with what matters? Call 210.818.5795 to schedule a session or visit the contact page.